My 7yo DD is driving me nuts. She taunts her brother, speaks back to me, slams doors, tells me she hates me, wishes she had never been born, wishes she was dead, hits her brother and mocks him (he's only 3). Everything is a battle. She is an extremely bright and clever girl and doing so well at school. Lovely manners there too. It seems she saves all the bad behaviour for me .
I try my best for her, I ignore what I can, I take things away, I put her in her room, reward charts but none of this works. Some of the things she says are so vicious and hurtful.
I am already on anti d's as have suffered depression on and off for 14 years. I'm feeling low enough at the minute and this is just making me feel worse.
My DH works long hours and isn't really around much, I'm a SAHM and everything DC and house relates is left to me.
My DDs behaviour is really getting me down though. I just don't know what to do with her next. Does she really hate me that much? Why can she be a lovely pleasant girl to her teachers/others but not to me? Any advice at all would be appreciated, thanks everyone.
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7yo DD atrocious behaviour
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overthehill74 · 16/08/2014 08:31
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