Just looking for advice about my 2.1 year old ds. I feel like I have completely let him down. His speech seems far behind that of his peers, though I think he has the recommended amount of words for his age and will sometimes combine words they are talking in full coherent sentences and nobody but me can really understand ds.
By this age my dd (5) could recite the words to hairy Maclairy and knew a long repertoire of songs etc. I know you shouldn't compare, I do, but I just feel as if I had tried harder then maybe ds would be talking better. All the info online says that it's basically down to parental input. The last year has been pretty full on, I project managed the renovation of our house, moved and had baby ds (12 weeks) but I feel this has caused me to let ds down, I should have prioritised him. :(
His behaviour is also really worrying. If I tell him off he shouts at me. He's defiant, stubborn and difficult. He also has a violent streak which I didn't experience with dd. hits, bites ( not hard, leaves teeth indentation and an "ouch" but no mark IYSWIM but still!!) throws things, doesn't listen, runs off. I just don't know what to do. I feel like a complete failure.
I don't know when he is trying to be difficult and when he doesn't understand eg at bedtime we were reading a book and talking about the fruit in the picture, I pointed at the bananas and named them, then at the oranges. Ds said "no NANAS!" I said "look ds, there are the bananas, those are oranges." He started screaming that they were bananas. Thing is I'm pretty sure he knew they were oranges, he's named them before. So does he not know or is he just being stroppy?
Please help me, I feel like such an awful mum.
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Feeling like a crap mum re Ds behaviour and speech.
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Yoruba · 04/08/2014 21:06
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