I am at the end of my tether with my DS1.
When he's with me alone, he's fine,
When he's with DP alone, he's fine,
When he's with DP and other people that aren't me or DS2, he's fine.
As soon as he's with the whole family (me,DP, 2 younger brothers) he's really really, unpleasant.
He's rude, whiney, argumentative, he tries his damnedest to get DO and DS2 in my bad books.
Today, as an example.
He was asked to eat nicely, (ongoing problem) he continued to chew with his mouth open. Taking huge bits of food to avoid cutting them up and shovelling.
So came a warning - "DS if I see you eating without using table manners again, you'll be asked to leave the table."
2 minutes later he's back to it.
"DS down from the table please."
Cue screaming, shouting, swearing and crying. I had to send him up stairs to calm down so it continued from the stairs, him screaming that's he's NOT going upstairs, he's NOT moving for anyone, we're all idiots, deaf, stupid idiots" (we were ignoring the abuse)
DP walked past the stair way (I was there I saw it) DS hits the floor and starts screaming that DP had hit him. This is also a regular thing, I have NEVER seen DP do anything to physically hurt the kids and it's really upsetting DP.
DS has also done thins to me and teachers/doctors. It's got to the point where we don't want to even hug him or anything incase we're accused of hurting him.
DP gets the worst of it and it bringing him right down.
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DS1 (9) behaviour.
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Titsalinabumsquash · 03/08/2014 20:17
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