My DS has just turn 18m. He's a very sociable and happy (and somewhat mischievous!) little boy. He waves and smiles at absolutely everyone he sees and he loves other children and pets. He crawled and walked early and is good with his hands. For example, at 14mo he picked up a key and within a few seconds he had opened a locked drawer in my desk.
But he hardly says anything. He's never really babbled away like other babies seem to do. He says "Ma" if I'm not there and he's wants me and has one or twice called DH "Da". He doesn't say yes or no (although he has an affirmative sound when he means yes and he shakes his head for no). And that's the extent of his speech.
He understands everything we say to him and has no trouble making himself understood in other ways (pointing, guiding our hands etc). He is very stubborn and doesn't give up until he's been understood.
He doesn't react to his name when we call him by it - although I'm sure he's not deaf as he can hear if we whisper.
DS spends a few hours each day with his nanny, who speaks Spanish to him. She says that he doesn't say anything in Spanish either, but understands everything she says to him.
So, I'm wondering whether we just need to give DS some time to catch up as he's learning two languages, or whether we should ask our HV if we should have DS evaluated. Has anyone had a similar experience with their kids and how did things turn out?
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18mo says hardly anything. Should I be worried?
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thebigpotato · 03/08/2014 17:16
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