Hey everyone :)
Just after some advice about my 2 and a half year old boy. His behaviour has never been great but it's getting worse. All started when he was around 14-15months old so we just made a joke of terrible 2's started early. But it's gotten worse and worse! For instance.... He doesn't listen to a word that anyone says, not me, his dad, grandparents, he just screams when he's asked to do something and runs off or makes a noise like 'arrgghh' and just ignores us. We have a 9 month old daughter who he is horrible to. He won't share with her, he hits her when she cries, anything she grabs he'll take off her with a lot of force and then push her over if she's sag up. We also have a dog who he's horrible to if she's the slightest bit in the way he will pull her ears of her fur and smack her constantly. He doesn't play nicely he throws things everywhere which I know isn't bad behaviour it's just kids playing but he purposely throws things at our tv and has broken 2 Tv's in 6 weeks costing us over £1000 in replacements. The other day he pulled off the wallpaper in the hallway causing us to redecorate majority of the house. When he was told off and told not to do it he went back to it half hour later and pulled off more. If he can't do something or told no and is picked up to be moved away from something he smacks me and his dad in the face with anger. He constantly tries to get hold of anything to mark the walls or draw on them or get hold of anything in cupboards and pull everything out. We have put locks on every single door of the house to prevent this but it's like living in a prison, for instance we will go in the kitchen to get a drink or something and when I say lets go sit down in the living room he will throw a paddy and scream as loud as he can and smack his head on the floor just because I've asked him to leave the room so I can lock the door as he cant be trusted in there alone. He won't sleep in his own bed anymore since moving house 4 months ago. At our old house he couldn't reach his bedroom handle so he no choice but to stay in there and go to sleep and never had issues we would put him to bed and he wouldn't attempt to get out. But here he won't stay in there as he can reach the handles and when we constantly put him back to bed he screams and screams hitting us which leads to him waking up his sister, spent hours doing this eveey night till 3-4am he doesn't give in and I need sleep so he ends up in our bed. Even if I stay in him room he doesn't stay in there he will constantly try to get in our room which is horrible as it leads to me and my partner having disrupted sleep as throighoit the night he will scream and kick us in the face or body if we are near him. If we leave the house he isn't any better when he's told it's time to go or if he can't go somewhere he screams and cries and kicks us when we pick him up, he won't sit in his pushchair and he won't always walk or if he does he doesn't stop when asked to or anything, or he just wants to be carried everywhere and as you can imagine it's hard work as he's quite heavy, especially when trying to push another pushchair.
We thought we'd have a family day out a few days ago to gullivers land. He pretty much cried all day because he didn't want to walk or didn't want to sit in his pushchair, and embarassed us as it isn't a little cry or scream it's a full on paddy. I'm getting to my wits end, I'm tired, I'm drained me and my partner argue constantly because he doesn't think he's that bad or just says he's a kid what do you expect. I know every child is different but I've never seen a child act the way he does day in day out. He isn't talking yet which makes things more difficult as he cries everytime he wants something and never know what hr wants and he's frustrated cause he can't tell us.
I've tried reasoning with him and bribing a little but nothing works. I've tried sticker charts but he doesn't understand it he just cries fir hours that he can't have it and can't have all the stickers in one go. Tried naughty step he just runs off constantly or runs upstairs and causes havoc. Please any advice/help would be appreciated. Thanks :)
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Mummy93 · 01/08/2014 20:18
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