That's it really - he's just so angry & argumentative all the time, mainly at me but then it usually overspills to his younger brother & often he's going into school in a strop which of course causes more problems with friends.
I really try not to engage or argue back when he's like but I won't tolerate him being rude to me & always dismiss any talk of 'you don't care, you never do anything for me etc' & tell him how much I love him etc. if I calmly say "come on DS let's not argue" & try to change the subject he accuses me of not listening & threats/follow-through of losing activities or game time aren't working either.
He's never physical & it clearly upsets him if I get cross (tears this morning so we had a chat with him saying I don't care, like DB better etc) .
I childmind & know he finds the lack of my attention after school hard but I've recently gone PT because of this but if anything it's got worse not better. I've tried having grown-up conversations about mummy needing to work & at least I get to see him all the time & how it's only a couple of hours after school 3 days a week we have lots of children but he's so demanding when they're here (eg will get cross if I can't play football whilst I'm feeding little ones or have a conversation at pick-up times)
Any advice (for me or him) as it's really grinding me down
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DS (8) so angry & argumentative
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PhoebeMcPeePee · 10/07/2014 13:43
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