My DD is 5.5 and the youngest in her class. She is tall for her age though and some people think she's about 7!
She loves fun and can be a handful at home but is also a sensitive soul who doesn't seem to be all that confident in school.
Lately she's been teased about her "fuzzy" hair. She has beautiful, blonde wavy hair (like a mermaid or princess I tell her). She put in her own ponytail at school, felt very proud of herself but was teased because of the sticky out bits you get with wavy hair. She was a little hurt and wet it in the toilets to try to smooth it down.
Her new teacher (P2) is totally different to her last. The kids are not kept in line as much as her last teacher did and I think my dd feels the difference. Her last teacher helped build great confidence in her and I'm concerned it will come undone.
She was tearful this morning and I waited for her while she went to the loo. Even though they knew I was outside, two girls from her class played a practical joke on her. Nothing bad, just soaked all the paper towels so she had nothing to dry her hands on and laughed out loud together. DD came out big eyed and cried before I left.
Its not bullying and its nothing more than kids being kids. I'd like to help her deal with this though......what can I do? What can I suggest she does? Laughs back? Plays the game to them? Walks away? When it was her hair I said I thought she should laugh and say "so what?"
How can I help her deal with these situations? One day soon it will be more than this and I want her to feel she has it within herself to deal with it.
Sorry for rambling on and on.
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Advice needed on how I can encourage dd to cope when teased (sorry for long post)
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frumpygrumpy · 07/09/2006 11:20
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