My 19mth old ds has been attending a childminder since he was 10 mths old. He has always seemed happy there and I am always happy with the level of care etc.
Lately however, the childminder's ds who is 4, has (in my opinion) been a little bit harsh with my ds. During the morning and evening drop off and collection I have seen him grab his toys from him, squeeze him hard around the middle in a faux hug and today he knocked his feet from under him purposely in the garden.
DS hates all of this, gets extremely agitated, shouts out and looks really cross and frustrated.
Of course I understand that the boy is jealous of DS in his home and that my DS is a visitor there and perhaps an unwanted one, in his eyes at least. I also know (I teach Reception) that he has to learn to get on with it.... but, at 18mths?????
Forgot to mention, aside from an slightly exasperated sigh the c/minder does not discipline her son, at least not while I'm present.
Would really appreciate some advice, thank you.
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19mth old ds getting 'hard time' at childminder...any advice
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onebigfreckle · 16/06/2014 21:57
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