My daughter is 8 years old and seems to be happy and secure, but recently she has been driving me a bit crazy with questions about dangers in the world, ie 'what would happen if you swallowed/touched/licked this or that thing' accompanied by a new spitting / holding saliva in her mouth habit.
What can I do?
I've talked to her on various occassions, reassuring her that she is safe and secure and that her father and I would never expose her to anything dangerous.
I've asked her if there's anything bothering her at school, but these seem to be minor concerns with girls she has issues with and we've talked about ways to handle various situations.
I've explained that spitting is dirty and that holding saliva in her mouth makes it hard for her to speak clearly. I don't think it's a medical thing, it's some kind of control thing.
I try not to let on how frustrated I am becoming by this whole thing because I don't want her to hide the behaviour from me; I want to keep communication open, but I'm really starting to worry about her.
She knows she shouldn't hold saliva in her mouth and/or spit, but it's as if she can't help herself and I'm getting worried that other kids will notice and that will only increase any problems she may be experiencing.
She has friends at school and out of school, she has 2-3 play dates a week and seems to be averagely popular.
Any clues as to what's going on or what I should do???
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Anxiety and spitting/holding saliva in mouth - driving me crazy!
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AJ65 · 09/06/2014 14:47
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