My 8yr old step daughter lives 50/50 between parents. At her mother's house she seems to rely on tv, playstation and internet for entertainment, when she is alone. At our house the children don't have bedroom tvs, we have no playstation, and the internet is for supervised use only. We have art and craft materials, games, construction toys, a big garden, and lots of books. She is a good reader and used to read constantly. In the last year though, she has become less and less interested in reading books for herself. More and more interested in American teen movies, make up and "grown up" clothes.
We do spend time doing things with the children, but also want them to have the ability to be happy and occupied, even when alone. Between us my husband & I have 5 children in total (aged 4.5 - 13). they are all able to be alone, except for the child in question. She used to be able to, but can't anymore. Whether it's hormones, confusion over living in two very different houses, low self esteem, or what; it is causing a problem & we don't know how to fix it. I would appreciate any advice on offer.
I know that children are all different, and that they change as they get older. but, the result of her inability to entertain herself is that, often, she goes around from room to room looking for someone to play with or talk to. This is, of course, fine most of the time. With a large family there's usually someone to be with. But if everyone else is busy, or out, she is tearfully, painfully at a loss for what to do.
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How do you teach a child to be content alone?
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MahoniaJaponica · 03/09/2006 13:56
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