My son turned two a month ago, and has suddenly begun hitting and pushing other children unprovoked - and occasionally me or another family member. He usually says 'Go away!' when he does it.
It has literally come out of the blue. One week, he was angelic at playgroup, the next I had to hover over him like a hawk for the entire two hours. It seems to have coincided with psychological growth spurt - his vocab and ability to put a sentence together are growing like mad, and, having been a child that usually played by himself or watched older children from a distance, he's now much more interested in interacting with other children.
I'm assuming this is a normal developmental phase, but how do I best deal with it? At the moment, I am taking him aside, holding his hands and making him pay attention, telling him that hitting hurts other people, and he mustn't do it, reinforcing that we are gentle with our hands, and then bringing him back to the 'victim' and making him apologise. I don't think it's registering, though - thoughts, anyone? If it's relevant, he's an only child, so has never been on the receiving end.
Thanks!
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two year old suddenly hitting - advice, please
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Burren · 06/05/2014 13:17
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