I need help advise on what to do here. Its causing problems between me and my partner.
I've been with my partner for nearly 3 years, when I met him I had been through a difficult marriage and he was perfect, he got on with my children and all was fine. It was him that supported me when I 1st approached CAMHS about my DS. He actually has a son under the Autistic spectrum himself so that kind of helped with me knowing that my son was different.
My problem is he doesn't seem to understand the way I am with DS he says he's 8 years old and should do as he is told. I have my own way of dealing with him as I'm sure many mums do, I have to break things down and make things clear what I want him to do. I know that shouting doesn't work and he doesn't understand the "I'll do it in a minute" he wants things done now. He doesn't get why my DS kicks and hits things (nor do I) but I know that he is different and have just learnt to live with it. I've tried to explain all this to my partner and he seems like he understands but then the next time my DS does something he kicks off again. I'm not saying that my DS always makes the right choices with my strategies because he doesn't but I know what he reacts too and what winds him up sad
I feel like I am banging my head against a brick wall. My partner is not great with his son either. He argues with him about it because he says he's 12 and not a baby anymore. GGRRRRRRR
Anyone been here??
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