My just 3 year old started nursery at 15 months
He can speak really well for his age is very imaginative and is very loving and cuddly sometimes bordering on clingy
He is also very headstrong he has constant tantrums (everyday starts with a tantrum about not getting dressed, not getting in the car etc., and ends with one about getting in the bath , getting in to bed etc.... ) I've tried giving him options or being more strict about it but same to the same outcome of tantruming
He is always on the go trying to get in trouble , run away etc.. Is a nightmare to take on public as he just won't do what he's told but switches off about 7.30 till 7 am so don't think sleeps an issue
Is also a terribly fussy eater. He plays reasonably we'll with his older brother who is
patient with him
Last fri the nursery approached my dp out the blue and said they want to put him on a behavioural chart because he keeps snatching from other kids and hitting and kicking them especially when they are in groups playing they want to have him in this chart and monitor him and take him out of the room if he does it so it's just him and an adult
I'm worried about this and am worried they are going to say they can't cope and ask him to leave (it's a private nursery) I'm thinking maybe I should leave work as he needs more time at home maybe he just doesn't cope at nursery?
Anyone been through this or any thoughts?
i don't know where he's learnt the hitting and an really embarrassed he's doing this
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3 year old and nursery behaviour
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Newname14 · 16/03/2014 19:06
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