Is,there something i was doing wrong here?
started when my 1 year old was lying on the carpet and he started jumping over her head. I said its dangerous and not to do it. He continued so i said if you do it again you go on the naughty step. So he does it again.
then sat him down on the step and said that i told him not to jump over his sisters head because its dangerous. You did it again so now you can wait here for four minutes. As soo as i leave the room he's up so i keep going back in to sit him down. No tears yet, he thinks its a game and i am keeping a calm face/ tone.
this goes on and on until he's jumping all over the bed and laughing and thinking its a game of chase, i show no emotion and just put him back. Eventually he starts trying to fight/hit me when i put him back. After,an hour there were a few tears, he did 4 minutes and at the end i looked him in the eye, explained why i did it, told him to say sorry and we had a hug.
we haven't used the naughty step for a few weeks. Usually use it when he hits someone and it might take ten minutes (sometimes less) was this the wrong punishment? Or badly carried out. We have had some success with it before.
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took one hour to get my 4 year old to sit on naughty step
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united4ever · 12/03/2014 22:28
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