DS is 2.7 and always been a pretty good ester but we're pretty firm with our rules - I've never ever offered an alternative and he does almost always get fruit/yoghurt unless he hasn't at least had a couple of mouthfuls and tried everything on his plate. He's always eaten everything on offer but often doesn't finish - fine by me - and e has recently started mucking around a lot - waving loaded forks around or saying e's done after 2 mouthfuls then asking for more 5 mins later. Pretty standard I'm sure.
Anyway today he was a handful all afternoon. He was asking for snacks constantly from about 4 pm which I managed to avoid giving (he had something substantial at 330 and we don't usually give snacks after that time. Dinner is 530.) He was hanging off my legs by 5pm begging for dinner, he asked for noodles over pasta which i agreed to and then he spent the next 15 mins watching me cook and repeating over and over 'I want my dinner'. Drove me nuts. I did shout at him to stop whinging which I felt v bad about but apologised to him and explained why he made me cross.
Anyway he gets in his chair, has one bite and then tells me he's finished and wants his yoghurt. I give him a few mins and a few chances to change his mind ( no yoghurt unless he eats a little more). Am totally calm but eventually I just get him down and we carry on playing. Literally 5 mins later he asks for a snack. I laugh. Re offer his dinner which is still out. He says no thanks. I ask if he's really hungry, he says no. We carry on playing. At 630 I re offer his dinner and tell him last chance before bath. He says no.
We go up to bath, he plays, he starts to get out at 7pm (bedtime) and says 'mummy can I have my dinner now!' DH says firm no to going back down to table in pjs but I say he can eat his dinner cold, fed to him by me, before he gets dressed, up in the bathroom! God knows why i did this but I really didn't want to take him back down to get all excited again, on the other hand I couldn't make him go to bed hungry. While he was eating we discussed that it wasnt nice to eat cold dinner in the bath but he knew the reasons why and he said tommorrow he would sit nicely and eat at dinner time.
I really don't know how I should have handled it. It seemed crazy feeding him in the bath. He was shattered and I didn't want to prolong bedtime any further. I didn't want to offer an alternative, something quick and easy, as this would have given mixed messages. And tbh I couldn't be bothered to prepare something different. I need to go shopping and there wasnt much else around.
So, to cut that epic story short, what wld you do?! Thanks in advance, sorry so long!
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sleepcrisis · 21/01/2014 22:48
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