My eldest is 6 and youngest 20 months. I work part-time 3 days a week, do the school run morning and afternoon everyday and the kids are in bed asleep by about 9.30pm. I admit our home is quite messy with toys etc everywhere, shower area have limescale build up in some areas and kitchen oven and hob will have some grease on it sometimes.
How clean/tidy are your homes?
I am asking because me and other half have been bickering and arguing for the past 6 years regarding keeping the house clean and tidy. He cannot see the difficulty in keeping the house clean and tidy while looking after 2 young children. By the time they are asleep, i don't have enough time or energy to cook and clean, ready for the next day so i tend to do what i have to do, as and when needed. Foil should be laid on the bottom of the oven tray to avoid cleaning heavily later when the foil can be replaced when dirty. But i don't always remember to or i will have a screaming child and will deal with him first and tell myself i will go back to the foil changing later but then forget. Is this normal?
I have friends with children and their houses are messy. His closest friends have no children so their house is always clean and tidy.
While stressed with the daily routine of housework, work and childcare, i have to find time to keep the children entertained and happy. There has to be a balance.
I am just very curious of how other peoples homes are like and how easy/hard do other mums find balancing everything? This will hopefully clarify what we have been arguing about all these years and put a stop it so feedback will be much appreciated!!
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Housework issue... how clean are everyone's homes??
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Feellikerubbish · 18/12/2013 11:04
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