Hi - I'm becoming increasingly concerned about my 9 and half year old son. He's a happy chap, lots of friends, loves lots of different activities, including acting - he's quite happy on the stage etc.
However it is becoming clear to me that he thinks of himself as fat or podgy. He absolutely isn't but there are two things which may contribute to why he thinks like this.
Firstly he has an 'outie' tummy button - he's never had a problem with it before, he's always quite happy swimming etc, and in fact has always liked making a bit of a joke of it with his friends (ie he lifts his t-shirt, one of them pokes it, and he makes a funny noise!) He knows that he can have a small operation to tuck it in if he wants to, and we were advised by the GP to leave it up to my son to decide if that is the route he wants to go.
Secondly, his posture isn't brilliant. He's double jointed in his limbs (just like his father) and when he stands, his knees bow backwards and his lower back has an abnormal arch to it, therefore sticking his tummy out.
This has come to the fore now due to the excessive heat - I have realised that the reason he is so keen on wearing his school sweatshirt all day, everyday, is not because he doesn't feel the heat (as he told me) but because he thinks it covers him up and makes him less "podgy" (his words, not mine)
Neither his dad, his younger sister or I have weight problems, and we are an active family - lots of walking, cycling, riding, surfing etc.
In all other ways he is a happy confident chap, but this gives me cause for concern. Or am I over-reacting? Does anyone have any ideas?
Many thanks Amanda
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9 yr old boy with self-image problems
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AmandaP · 18/07/2006 21:52
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