Help,
This is a long post.
DD has always been a bit of a mummies girl but not too bad with DH or anyone else etc, However over the past 6 months she has got more and more clingy to the point where she refuses if DH says theyll do anything together.
She screams if DH tries to change her nappy, bath her, dress her etc. She will do certain things with him ie chase around the garden but wont let him do anything else. Its become really wearing as I have to do everything for her and even if I let DH do things I have to put up with her crying that she wants mummy which breaks my heart and also pushes DH out. She follows me about all day and wants me to sit next to her on the settee, me to read the book ETC. I keep suggesting things for DH to do ie. 'Shall Daddy read you a nice book' but all she says is 'no, mummy do it'
Im due to have a baby soon so im not sure how this will change things but at the moment I just feel sorry for DD because shes crying if I wont do things with her and I feel awful for DH as he doesnt get to be with DD much because she wont play/stay with him and so does everything with just me. If I go anywhere ie shopping she has to come.
Im on maternity now and so the problem has also extended to not wanting to go to grandparents and the clingyness has got even worse.
How can I try and get her to enjoy DH a bit more??? I want her to like her Daddy and for us both to spend equal amounts of time with her. I am fed up or hearing her cry for me and not knowing if I should just bath her as it keeps her quiet or if I should ignore her pleas and let DH do it.
Please help, how do I turn a clingy toddler into a happy one.
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Very, very clingy 2yr old- I dont know how to convince her to like DH
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kbaby · 16/07/2006 10:12
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