Hi I have my DS who is 21months, turns 2 in Feb; and I'm a bit worried about his development; social and understanding sort of things really but will give you a back story-
At around 9 months he still couldn't sit up and the HV was starting to get worried and schedule more visits then he suddenly learnt a little after that. (she is a lovely brilliant health visitor!)
He was also late with walking, can't remember exact age but we had the same sort of thing where we were starting to worry (myself, DH and HV;) but he suddenly 'got it' and all was okay, however the gap this time was a little bigger, iykwim?
Anyway he still isn't talking but constantly babbling his own language; he can say words like; mumum, dada, nononon, yeahyeahyeah but he never uses these in context and never calls us mumum or dadad and he apparently says car but he has never in front of me only MIL, I think he says them because they are a sound he can say and uses them but he doesn't seem to know how to use them etc.
He also headbuts; normal toddler behaviour I know, but it got so bad the other day nursery rang and asked me to collect him because they could calm him, he headbuts over everything when frustrated and keeps doing it even when it hurts him. e.g. I go to pour him a drink but he gets impatient and headbuts and screams. He can't understand that I am getting him his drink even though I explain it and if feels like he thinks I'm keeping it form him? I don't know, I can't explain well. It's just all the time.
He just doesn't seem to understand anything you say to him, questions or anything; we talk to him all the time and read to him constantly (he loves it when you read to him.)
He doesn't point to things and he loves his toys cars but if I was to ask him to pick up his car it wouldn't even register.
Feel free to ask questions, I know I have left loads out because I can't think what to write and what is relevant etc but I'm just worried.
I'm also pregnant and he doesn't understand that or even get babies, he has had lots of contact with babies but I think he thinks they are just a toy or a doll, he really doesn't get that at all.
I explain things to him in an age appropriate way when chatting and playing with friends but he doesn't get it or seem to listen.
the reason I am worried is because everyone is making comments now and always have tbf. But I mean everyone, he has friends older and younger than him and relatives, friends etc just everyone now.
He does understand no though - he doesn't like that word!
We are seeing the HV during the week and going into Nursery to have a chat about it all; he only goes one day a week, term time only (all we can afford, it was to try and get him a bit more there socially; he is always seeing friends though and other people, I just thought it might help, he seems to enjoy it, he just likes the toys!)
I'm not so worried about the speaking more the lack of understanding, he doesn't seem to understand at all.
He's not that bad, but I'm just at a loss; he really is a happy boy though and loving and affectionate, he sleeps through (I'm very lucky!) He eats pretty well, likes his fruit and veg, he likes people, he isn't a stop and listen or chat sort of boy though he is just happy for them to fuss him for a bit but go off and play in his own little world.
Sorry it's so long, if all I need is to be told to get a grip that's fine.
Thank you if you read it
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onenutshortofasnickers · 16/11/2013 20:11
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