Hi everyone,
Some of you may have read my other threads about my dd - who's 5.5 and has been having sleeping problems - night terrors - lately and whose behaviour ahs been awful - probably because of being over-tired !
Well - the night terrors are getting a bit better - I am waking her slighlty before the time she usually has one, and dh has stopped yelling at her during them - so good progress there.
Anyway - last night she was really really upset after school and at bedtime - fairly inconsolable because her friend had apparently being saying nasty things to her - like "I'm never going to be your friend again" - "I don't like you anymore" etc. - and my little dd asked me so innocently if the police would put the friend in prison for breaking something - when asked what this girl had broken - she said "my heart mummy !" - I was speechless !
Anyway - without woffling on - I was just wondering if those of you out there with sensitive little ones ahd found any good ways to make them feel better !
I have said things like "Well she's a silly girl then " "It's her loss not yours" etc - and on other occassions "She doesn't know what she's talking about so take no notice! "
This morning I took this girl to school (school run thing) and she was telling dd that he playhouse was much better than hers because hers has an upstairs etc - I said that they were both v lucky to have playhouses etc - and to stop being nasty - but this kid really annoyed me. She is quite young for the year and is very much "babied" by her parents - bit of a princess I suppose !
At school I mentioned it to the teacher who said she would keep an eye on it - but I just don't know what to do. Teacher said it is likely that they will be separated for next year anyway.
The worse thing is that we are friends with the parents and will be seeing them this weekend - not sure if I should say something - the mother is one of those who believes her child does no wrong - and I don't want to get into a row !
What I need is strategies for helping my dd cope and to stop the comments bothering her ! I too am very sensitive and dwell on things people have said to me - so strategies for me would be great too !!
Thanks !
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Sensitive daughter - aged 5 and a half ! How to help her ?
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Norah · 16/06/2006 12:51
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