We use a childminder so we can only potty train when on annual leave to allow plenty of time to get reasonably dry before going nappy-less at the CMs. We have two weeks holiday (at home) coming up in August and LO will be 3YO mid-Sept. No more leave after August then till end of October and that will only be a week, so think two weeks in August will be a good time to try.
At the weekend daughter wanted to use the potty/toilet and didn?t want a nappy, wanted to wear knickers. Result was on Sat: 4 x wet knickers, 2 x poos in knickers. Not one thing in potty. Each time she seemed to go to the potty AFTER the event. The 2nd poo she seemed aware beforehand and went to potty, but sat down on potty in garden forgetting to take down pants first - there was nothing I could do, it was too late to get her to stand up again to take down pants. It was actually quite funny, but she was trying so hard, so I didn?t laugh as I didn?t want to upset her or put her off trying. I do think taking down pants is yet another thing she has to learn/remember so think bare bottom might be better - but she wanted to wear pants and made a terrible fuss when we suggested she didn't need to..
By Sunday she was not even trying though. She wanted to wear knickers with no nappy, yet didn?t want to go to potty or toilet. She wasn?t worried about wet pants, but did seem quite distressed by the poos in knickers (not surprising really) yet this still didnt seem to make her want to use the potty. It's such a shame, as she was really trying on Saturday, and I was so proud of her for wanting to use the potty/toilet. I am really hoping the trauma of the accidents has not put her off. I'm happy to let her practice again this coming weekend too, if she wants to, but I am really worried that after Sunday's not wanting to use potty/not being bothered about wet pants, it looks like her enthusiasm has already waned.
In the week (until August hols), she has to wear a nappy, as she's at the CMs with two other little ones, a baby and some older kids at the moment too with it being the school holidays. It doesnt help that CM has carpets (we don't have carpets, so it doesnt matter if the floor gets wet/soiled at home)
I am still hoping she will want to try for the full two weeks in August but that's only two weeks away - do you think in two weeks time it will be any different? Was really hoping she would be nappy-less in day-time at least and reasonably consistent going to potty/toilet by 3YO.
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Nearly 3: Potty/toilet training in 2 weeks
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gourd · 22/07/2013 14:34
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