Hi everyone. We are having real difficulties with DD. For the past few months every day has been a battle! She goes to playgroup 15 hours a week and often lashes out at other children in a completely unprovoked way (pulling hair, scratching, pushing). She attacks her little brother (who is 2 next month) and twice has scratched his face dangerously close to his eye. Every meal time she moans and whines and it's a real battle to get her to eat anything - often she eats nothing whatsoever. And she very often has huge, prolonged screaming and crying fits that are really quite disturbing (as well as highly stressful) and makes us seriously worried about her happiness.
In between all these things, she is a wonderful little girl. She is quite motherly to her little brother, full of cuddles, funny, intelligent, cheeky, adventurous ... we're at a loss to decide how to tackle these behavioural problems. Being calm and understanding sometimes seems not to be enough (not that we always manage it anyway!), especially regarding attacking her playgroup friends: we are really worried that the other children dislike and fear her, so we wonder about taking a harder line with DD for her own good, to ensure she does not become a pariah at playgroup! But then, if this is all down to some natural developmental stage, it seems unfair and pointless to try and punish her for it ...
If anyone else has been through something similar and can offer advice or information, I'd be really grateful. Is this normal?!
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Awful behaviour from DD (3 years 8 months)
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monstertufts · 22/07/2013 14:18
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