Son is 9 & overall a very good kid, always good reports from school, has some SEN, some ADD, but no problems. He is friendly with everyone in his class, but sticks with two particular boys who are horrendous. One is so badly behaved he is constantly in trouble at school, parents always being called in etc etc. The other has better behaviour but outside of school he has no boundarys at home. He is treated like an adult, has every electrical device in his room, and uses fb & internet unsupervised.
Boy 2 goes onto his FB & asks to speak to my boy, I have let him, but can see the convo on my phone. Boy2 asks my boy to sneak out to meet him. My boy makes excuses & refuses. I tell boy2s mum, who doesn't care.
This week, for the first time in all his school years, my son & boy 1 are sent to the headmasters office for hurting a girl in the playground. My boy lied to me, and I heard it third had from boy 1. I am horrified. I sit & chat with my son about what happened, what he did, what he should have done etc, and how disspointed we were that he didn't tell us firstly.
My question is really can I somehow encourage new friendships for my son, can I butt in that much? Three days of school left, and should be distanced from these kids in the holidays, but how can I make my son think its a good idea for find some new friends. can I?
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9year old son has the worst behaved friends ever (LONG)
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BustyStClaire · 20/07/2013 11:50
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