DS has been doing tennis at the local courts for about a year. The coach is a proper coach and I understand he doesn't do it fot the money (get's very little if what the parents pay is anything to go by). Anyway a couple of time he has told me how good DS is but yesterday he went up a gear and said he was 'unbelievable' the way he could hit a ball. He went on and on about it and talked about him putting top spin on it etc. He is 6. I normally watch but yesterday I was on a bench basking in the sun nd later when I asked DS had he hit many balls he said no just a couple.
My own assessment of him is that he is pretty good and I was shocked at hw quick he learnt to hit the ball but to me he doesn't seem unusually good. I used to play a lot in my teen and was pretty good but was largely self taught so not sure how good a judge I am.
DP thought the coach was trying it on with me ( I do have my good days) and my suspicious mind wonders if he wants me to book him for extra one on one coaching.
My question is are we parents who don't want to accept praise for our DS or are there people out there who tell us we have stars to get something from us when our kids are pretty ordinary.
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drosophila · 07/06/2006 19:50
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