I have 3 dds. dd1 is 5 and never gave me much of the "terrible twos", dtds however are making up for it. They are almost 22mo and it's the same everyday. We get in the car (dh helping - they do everything he asks with no problem but then has to go to work leaving me with two dc who pretty much do the opposite of what I say), we drive to dd1's school, walk to the playground, say goodbye, walk back to the car. All of this is calm and fairly straightforward. We reach the car, dtds are happy to climb into the car but then all hell breaks loose. They do not want to get in their seats.
I have tried being firm speaking in a calm but firm voice, allowing them to climb in themselves... they just try to climb into the driver's seat... bought them steering wheels for their car seats (which they like but not at 9.10am apparently). I've also placed them on the "naughty spot" while they calm down. It ends the same, me forcing them into their chairs and them pulling my hair, grabbing my glasses, pinching and biting. I generally get fully beaten up.
If I decide to take them to the park, all I'm thinking about it is "oh no I'll have the car battle before going home".
DH followed me to school this morning (we planned this) without dtds knowing. He observed so he could try and suggest what I'm doing wrong or could do differently. He intervened pretty quickly as he saw what was happening and as soon as he said "dd sit in your seat" she did (whilst still clutching the lump of hair she'd pulled from my head). Dh doesn't get why they do this for me either, so no nearer a solution.
It can take me 30minutes to get them safely in their car seats and I'm exhausted and dread it everyday. Any advice appreciated... really want to enjoy dtds but this makes any journeys hellish. (It's the same in their pushchair and they can climb out of that).
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car seat battles with toddlers. HELP!!!
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PrincessScrumpy · 25/06/2013 14:31
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