Ds2 (3 1/2) goes to kindy three days a week from approx 0845 to 1600. He has been there since last Sept (though Sept - Dec he just did one half day a week) and absolutely loves it. He loves his main teacher person and happily chats away about the other children, what they do etc. Gets excited when he spots it from the car if we happen to drive past.
All until yesterday. I had a phone call at 1000h from Jill saying that he was inconsolable, had been since I had left and maybe I should collect him. I didn't get the message until 1130 (was at a work meeting though not clear why they didn't try my mobile) by which time he had settled and I said that I would pick him up as soon as his nap was finished (he sleeps there but not at home). He was fine when I collected him and we played in the park, he ate dinner twice, had a good night's sleep and ran around like a mad thing this morning following a good breakfast (so he's not sick). Happy to be in kindy until I had to leave to get ds1 to school. Popped in again 15mins later after dropping ds1 and he was still sobbing. Jill arrived as I did and he went to her and settled reasonably so I decided not to disturb him. Called kindy just now (1030) and she said that he took a bit to calm down but had become interested when they started finger painting just after I left the second time (he didn't see me the second time) and seemed fine.
So he's not sick, there hasn't been an incident at home or kindy that anyone can think of, how can we help him run in without a backward glance again???
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Sudden onset of separation anxiety at 3 1/2
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hannahsaunt · 10/05/2006 01:50
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