He's bright, clever, funny, reads a lot and has a great creative imagination - writes amazing stories and poems, reads loads. He gets anxious - his active imagination is his worst enemy - he lies awake worrying about bad things happening to dh and I, or stranger danger etc. He has big trouble sleeping. He's also chaotic and disorganised, gets distracted incredibly easily, always late, has trouble finishing his schoolwork (which is messy), always losing things.
Anyone recognise this child, and if so, any hints about the best way to help equip him to function in the real world without completely stifling his creativity? We've just started a points system as an incentive: responsible, organised behaviour gets points, and when he's got enough he can cash them in for pocket money or presents. But not sure yet how that will work.
any advice welcome - books for me to read so i can help better, techniques to try etc
thanks
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Too much going on in his head - 9yo ds
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RozzieR · 17/03/2013 17:16
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