Hi.
My DD is 6 and I'm quite concerned about her reluctance or inability to use a toilet out of the house.
She can literally hold it (wee) for about 8 hours at times and will insist she doesn't need to go or can't go.
I'm not sure if it started in reception year at school when they had an overflowing toilet and it freaked her out. But today we had a party at a play centre, so left the house at 10am. we then left the party at 1pm at which point I tried her on the toilet, she said she didn't need to go, so I went (to sort of show her its all ok) and we left to meet dh and ds in town. Ds then say he needed the toilet about 3ish so we all went. Now she hadn't gone since about 9am so she must have needed to go but wouldn't, just sat on it and said it wouldn't come out. I'm convinced its all in her head as when were at home she will go generally without much fuss. (But doesn't paeticulally like going)
Now we have issues with constipation so she will only ever poop at home, so were talking wee here. But im totally unsure of how to deal with this, I don't want to make things worse but know I've got frustrated with her after its been 6 hrs and I can tell she needs to go but won't.
She will rarely go at school, so again can hold it all day. I'm worried she will get a bladder infection. I've tried talking to her but she just says she can't go.
I'm so worried as tbh her reluctance to poop is stressful enough without adding weeing into it now. She generally just doesn't like using toilets, but that's not the answer!!!
Help. Do you think it's a phobia or could it be something medically wrong that's stopping her?
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Repetitiverobot · 02/03/2013 18:54
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