DD1 is all about me and just horrible to him. She won't hug him, kicks if he tries to get into our bed (that she is currently sharing), won't go on days out even if it means being bored at home, wants me to carry/wash/feed/drive her, every little thing in fact.
He tries so hard, cooks for her, plays games I just wouldn't have the patience for that is the only thing shell do with him.
When I was working before mat leave with dd2 he was more or less the sahd (works nights) and their relationship was great, that was 9 m ago. I'm due to go back soon but he is opening a business so won't be taking on that role again.
What can I do to improve matters? He worked really hard on it but has now got to the stage where he said tonight "well I don't want your hugs or to be friends anyway dd1, I'm sick of it" then banned her from playing my iPad for a day. Cue row between us (I felt that wasn't helpful/fair), and dd1 going to bed upset.
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3 year old is horrible to her daddy.
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Softlysoftly · 20/02/2013 22:20
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