Ds has just turned 4. I would like a bit of advice on how to handle his competitiveness, if he loses at anything he flies off the handle, goes wild - screaming, shouting, hitting, etc. We've tried to ignore it, tried to punish him for it (naughty step, stopping game, put up to bedroom etc) but he still does it, everytime he loses. I know he is still quite young, but he's going to school in September and I'm worrying about it happening there. I don't want people to think he's a brat.
Bit of background info....
He has a very compliant, tolerant (a lot more than is expected of her) 6 yr old older sister (and I sometimes wonder if she should give him a good wallop) they do get on very well and are always playing together, and a baby sis who he dotes on,
I don't smack him as a rule (I have done it though probably about 10 separate times in his life) as it just makes the situation spiral out of control.
Also if he hurts himself he seems to get angry rather than cry although I have tried to tell him it is ok to cry, (that sounds v.corny sorry )
I'm a bit clueless about little boys, never thought I'd get one as my family are all girls (apart from my dad ) I am very proud of him and love him to pieces BTW and usually he is very loving:)
Am I being neurotic??
Am I letting him get away with too much??
Am I being too hard on him??
Should I read Biddulph 'Happy boys' book??!!!
Mainly - is this 'normal-ish' behaviour for a 4yo boy?
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Need a bit of advice about my 4yo ds
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Rodeo · 20/04/2006 18:47
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