My 2.5 year old DD has always struggled a bit with the social side of things, but the thing that worries me the most is that she will never tell me how she feels, if she is hurt or if she is ill.
After a slow start, she is now pretty good verbally, and when she's feeling good, she can express herself well. But, for example, if she falls and is crying a lot, I'll ask her what hurts/if she's ok/how I can help, and she just sobs and repeats "I'm all right. I'm all right now", when clearly she isn't! Same story when she's ill, or sad, or scared. It almost seems like she's embarrassed of her negative feelings. She also sometimes struggles with letting me help her, say wiping a runny nose, although never has a problem letting me hug her, even when she's totally distraught.
I've tried telling her that it's ok to feel bad, that everyone feels bad sometimes, and if she tells me what's wrong I'll help her however I can, but it makes no difference.
Is this normal toddler behaviour? How can I help her?
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Not talking about feelings - is this normal?
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spottywelly · 04/01/2013 09:17
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