My 2 year old boy is behaving in an increasingly controlling manner and I?m starting to despair. He?s an only child, I?m a stay at home mum and his dad is self employed and works from home.
I want to play with my little boy and enjoy his company but lately all he seems to want to do (with me) is order me around. Reading books together means me sitting next to him (he won?t sit on my knee any more), he holds the book and I read along. He skips pages out and points to things that I must name, often he knows what he?s pointing to but needs me to repeat it anyway. We then go through all the thumbnail pictures on the back cover and I have to read out the titles. If I don?t say what he?s pointing to straight away, he very quickly gets cross and if I refuse to say it, he can be reduced to tears.
He drinks milk and hardly eats anything. I have been careful not to create a battle ground over eating and have deliberately shown him indifference when he refuses to eat dinner. But he still knows that we want him to eat certain things and so I feel like I?m losing a battle that I tried not to create.
Several months ago I spent one night away and he rejected me at the station when we were reunited. His father goes away on overnight business trips maybe once a month but is greeted with open arms. He cries when I go in to get him in the morning, sometimes throwing himself back on the bed. He has recently learnt how to say ?Daddy? but refuses to even try to say ?Mummy?.
We see him play with his cousins and other relations and he is an outgoing, confident little boy for the most part.
I?m sure this is all quite normal and that it?s just a phase but I was wondering if anyone had a similar experience and how they coped with it.
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controlling 2 year old
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twinklejute · 29/12/2012 11:29
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