Our new(ish) arrival, Rebecca (just over one month old), seems to refuse sleep completely. She gets very tired in the morning, early afternoon and then again at early evening and at night, but refuses sleep at every turn.
I have tried putting her down when asleep - she wakes up the minute she's in her moses basket or pram top. Not only does she wake up - she screams pretty much straight away.
I've tried putting her down awake to try to get her to "understand" that she can go to sleep safely with me or OH there with her (in view). We've tried this rocking her and not rocking her.
We've tried swaddling her - she goes spare when she's restrained like this, but it's the only thing that keeps her arms from flailing wildly, which is something that wakes her up (when she finally does sleep). The last two nights this has been the only thing that has got her to sleep - and I honestly don't know whether it's because she has cried herself out, hasn't slept in the afternoon or if it's because she's swaddled (which she doesn't seem to like in spite of herself!).
We've been trying infacol in case it's colic, but it doesn't seem to have any effect. She is clean, changed, fed, winded and cuddled so I am at my wits' end to stop her crying.
Would be great to know if anyone else has had this sort of problem, and if you did how (or if!) you managed to solve it. I just want her to feel safe to go to sleep when she's tired and make sure that she gets the rest she desperately needs - any help/tips would be very gratefully received!
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One month old will not sleep - day or night!
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VienneseStrudel · 09/12/2012 21:13
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