DS(8) isn't getting on very well at school. He's been unhappy for a while now and says he's always getting into trouble. He feels like the teacher doesn't like him because she's always telling him off. He's quite sensitive and prone to dramatics so we listened and comforted him but didn't get overly concerned.
DH went to the parents evening this week and the teacher didn't have a good word to say about him. She said he has a bad attitude, is always in trouble and misses quite a few playtimes. She said he's missed quite a few homeworks (DH challenged this as we're only aware he missed the one over half term as we had visitors), never completes his reading record (I filled it in at the beginning of term to say he reads every night in bed and was currently reading Harry Potter) and he doesn't try hard enough (he always used to as we noted he had much more drive than DD so this was a surprise.)
To start with DH thought she'd mixed him up with another DC as it sounded so unlike DS as he's fine at home. She's new to the school and DH didn't find her very warm so she didn't make a good impression on him. As a teacher himself he always tries to find something positive to say during parents evenings, but she clearly couldn't find a single thing! But we said we'd support her and would speak to DS about his behaviour at school.
Today he came home in tears as he was moved down on some chart and now has to miss playtime on Monday. But he's adamant that he doesn't know what for, only that the teacher turned round and said 'DS, that's inappropriate. Move your name down to whatever it was.'
Just looking for thoughts really. I've no idea why DS is getting into so much trouble and he feels like his teacher doesn't like him. He got glowing reports from the last 3 years saying he was a pleasure to have in the class etc. Just not sure what's gone wrong.
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chicaguapa · 16/11/2012 23:11
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