My DD is 3 and my good friend's DD is 2.5
They have always seen a lot of each other. For the last few months friend's DD has been lashing out at my DD in particular.
At first I thought she would grow out of it but she is becoming more violent - biting, punching, hairpulling - she has begun to leave marks on DD.
My friend is mortified and always tells her DD off. However am starting to feel like a bad mum for letting my DD be in this position - she doesn't retaliate and always forgives her - am worried that she will think that it's ok for someone to do this to her. So anyway, I suggested we keep them apart for a couple of weeks to see if it helps. We live in a small village and will bump into one another at the playground etc but just thought it would be an idea to lay off the intense playdates for a while.
My friend is now mega offended and says I am overreacting.
I have always tried not to criticise her parenting style and end up spending time reassuring her that it is just a phase that she will grow out of. Just can't bear to see my little one in tears any more and asking why her friend has hurt her.
Has anyone else had this problem? If so what did you do?
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ehmumbo · 15/11/2012 12:13
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