DD went to a sleepover party. she is a sensible, quite old fashioned almost 11 YO.
One boy went. The others were girls.
The boy has just turned 11.
He has a crush on DD.
She woke up to find he had been sleeping on the bed next to her (supposedly because the others swapped beds while DD was asleep an there was no where else for him to go.)
She got a real shock when she woke up and really felt that her privacy had been invaded.
He and the host were spreading this info around the playground (ie that they were in the same bed ) so the class teacher has now been involved. (Teachers have been very supportive of dd.)
I don't know much about 11 year old boys. Is his motivation likely to have been remotely sexual, at this age? What you you do (if anything)? His parents don't know, btw.
Am trying to stick to the facts but am actually really upset about this.
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Is this likely to be 'sexual' or not (11 year old boy) and what shall I do??
NotLinda · 09/11/2012 14:05
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