Hi, I'm feeling completely thrown by this particular issue & am looking for some handholding & advice.
DS is 3 & goes to nursery. DP is not his dad, but we live together. I have main custody of DS, but he stays with his dad every weekend.
On Monday I got a phone call from the nursery because DS had been asked if he'd had a nice weekend & he'd said no, because DP deliberately hurts him. I explained to the nursery that a) that would NEVER happen & b) could not have physically happened because DS was with his dad from Fri - Sun night & the couple of hours he did see DP, he was totally supervised by me and / or my family (bonfire event).
I had to sign a statement about this when I picked him u on Monday & DS admitted to the member of staff talking me through it that he'd just made it up as a story.
I have now received another phone call from the head of CP at the nursery, saying that DS has made two more 'disclosures' about DP (don't know what exactly) & it has now been referred on & to wait for a call from CP probably before the end of today.
To be clear, there is no way that DP would or could have done anything bad to DS. In fact he has always gone above & beyond what might have been expected of him, & has treated DS with nothing but love & patience.
So any ideas about what might happen now / why DS might suddenly be saying these things / anything else would be greatly appreciated. I'm feeling very shaken just at the moment. Thank you.
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PuddingsAndPies · 07/11/2012 15:00
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