Had my second row with DH in 4 days over this now so wanted to scope the MN view. Situation in brief is:
my DS is 19 months old, and I think now is the time to teach what is expected levels of good behaviour, including eating sitting at a chair/in his high chair not running around the room. But he refuses point blank at the moment to sit in his high chair to eat, or even eat anything at all that I offer him, even though I know full well he eats EVERYTHING put in front of him at nursery where he goes 4 days a week.
DH says my expectations of how DS should be behaving are too high, I have an "idealised" view in my head of how a child should behave, probably from all the "Hippy hairy books" I read about child development (how annoying is that?) and that I need to relax and not get so wound up. Then in the next breath he tells me Breakfast is the most important meal of the day and he should be eating something before going to nursery!!
I am pregnant and probably more highly strung than normal, but I am finding that we argue about this kind of issue (how to discipline our son, is he too young for discipline, his more "in your face" approach versus my beleif in consistent repetitive but firm actions)more and more - I find it a very emotive subject, and take criticism very badly I admit..
Any ideas/shared experiences welcome. Maybe it's just a thing we need to work out together and maybe I just need to chill...........
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IamBlossom · 30/03/2006 09:45
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