Why on earth do I bother and then be subjected to this behaviour.

[Radley]

DD`(7) has been to casualty this morning to have her arm checked, and as she had been good at hospital and I have been feeling a bit down etc, I decided we would all go
to brewsters for something to eat.

What a mistake that was, from the minute she got in, she was picking her little sister (3) up and sitting her on the window ledge, when I went to get a drink I asked her to sit quietly with her sister whilst I came back, next thing I knew she was running past me to the other side of the pub.

They both refused to eat their dinners, I told them in no uncertain terms if they didn't eat it they wouldn't go in the play area, dd1 just laughed and said she would.

Hence after 1/2 hour of her saying she hates me, I'm a nasty, horrible, ugly, fat mummy, we are at home and she is banging about in her bedroom.
They did not go in the play area.

It always seems to me that I decide to treat them and do something nice and it gets thrown back in my face.

[fastasleep]

little horrors! I have no advice, as even my littlies can make me tear my hair out by noon....



I hope someone has a magic Tanya Byronish plan for you!

[pinkladybb]

give me strength i can only hear my on voice i have a little boy of two and hes driving me mad its not these terrible twos its ten times worse ive gone through head butting, biting, answering me back and now scrapping with more in between. people say hes getting better and listens to me more but to me hes getting worse
he doesnt have any junk food or e numbers or anything like that so i cant blame what hes eating his health visitor says hes just a typical little boy but to be honest hes doing my head in
to make matters worse i have other mums telling me that hes a bully- hes only two and a half get real
please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!