I am so ashamed, I could cry. My son (6) has been pretty rude, no horrendously rude, to our au pair for the last six weeks or so. He was fine when she arrived, then the honeymoon wore off. He can be awful with us too, in the home, but his teachers and friends' parents all say he is an absolute joy to have around.
The au pair has tried hard to be both firm and nice to him (and underneath it all I have a feeling he is fond of her) but she is at the end of her tether, and tells me, politely, that I have to sort out his behaviour and she cannot work with rude and ill-bred children. I have no magic answers, find him frustrating myself, and I am beside myself with worry and anger. Torn between loyalty to my son and embarrassment at the way he behaves to someone else living in our home.
Please can anyone help? - do you know of anywhere we can go for help eg in behaviour management? Or something? Anything?
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Extreme rudeness - help
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Bee · 05/12/2001 09:32
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