DD (just turned 5) is engaging in all sorts of testing the boundaries/control shenanigans, and there has been a good deal of friction between us off/on for the past few weeks.
Tonight at the supper table she got so overwrought about something she wanted me to do (read a story to her at the table, which I declined to do), that she ate only about half her supper. I also didn't sit with her and coax her to eat, as I sometimes do. The end result is that she is now whinging that she's hungry. Yes, it simply might be a bedtime delay tactic or, she could in fact, be hungry. I told her that I was sorry about it but that she wouldn't be hungry if she had eaten her supper properly. Also told her that now she will just have to wait until breakfast.
Am I being mean, or is this a time to hold firm to make my point?
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Am I a mean mummy if I hold firm?
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Earlybird · 22/02/2006 19:33
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