My ds is in his first year of school and is 5 1/2 yrs old. For a long time now he's been the type of kid who will approach anybody (usually other children when he wants to play) but if we're out at a park having a picnic or something, he often goes and joins another family and will stay with them for as long as they allow him to (!). It happens regularly enough that we are often left sitting by ourselves while ds is off socialising with another family.
Yesterday I picked him up after school and we went to have fish & chips with my parents at a park. Ds befriended a little girl there (about 3), he followed her around & showed her how to climb on the play equipment, then he sat her on the swing and pushed her for about 10 minutes. Afterwards they ran over to her parents and he stayed with her family for about the next hour - we didn't know them from a bar of soap. He just sat there chatting away to them until it was time to go. Luckily they were very friendly & didn't seem to mind him being there at all, but a lot of the time I feel a bit awkward (embarrassed actually) about the fact that he just latches on to another family whenever he gets the opportunity. He's very sociable but I'm wondering if this is an uncommon thing for kids to do..? People must wonder why he doesn't want to stay with his own family
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Mandy03 · 31/01/2006 23:58
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