I've just written a long message but I erased it all so I'll make this brief,
Ds2 was born 10 weeks ago.
Ds1 (normally a hyper, fun and spirited child) became very reserved.
Playgroup have taken this change to be an improvement in his behaviour. For me it has sent alarm bells ringing.
Over the last 4 weeks his behaviour has been intolerable. But is only directed towards myself and dh.
He seems depressed and so I've stopped smacking him for his extreme behaviour.
He has started not wetting the bed but pooing in his pants. He has been toilet trained for 18 months.
He says that he hates his dad.
He occasionally tries to hurt ds1 when my back is turned.
I would appreciate any advice about how to handle his behaviour, ways of talking to him about why he feels this way and anyone whos been through this and had a happy ending would be nice to hear from too.
BTW, I try to spend as much time as I can with him, and I praise him for every good thing he does but it doesn't seem to help matters. Yesterday and today he drew all over the walls, why didn't he get the message when he was sent to his room for it yesterday? I am very worried that he may be depressed. Why is he behaving so well at playgroup and not for me, it used to be the other way round.
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New sibling causing ds1 stress
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Bekki · 16/11/2003 21:30
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