I can honestly say i am not enjoying being a parent at all at the moment,my dd is 21 months old and is having daily tantrums at about most things eg changing nappy,bathing, and if not throwing a tantrum then is whining It seems that whatever approach i take to this behaviour makes it worse,I try and ingore it which i can do for a short time but you kinda loose patience when it is happening all day and this results in me shouting which makes me feel terrible.Or i try and be assertive in a calm way, but this also makes the tantrums worse. I can feel myself close to tears as i am writing this as i all i want to do is my my dd happy,and also change the way i act during this behaviour as i feel my behaviour is not hyelping the situation.My partner used to be really patient,but it is also starting to get him down and i feel we are not as close as we used to be. I am looking for any help or advice about this behaviour,is there any books about toddlers behaviour that anyone could recommend
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