My ds is now 8 months old and much loved. Over the past 4 months I have come to the conclusion I do not want any more children, not for any specific reason but I am very happy with the status quo.
Coming from a family of 5 kids I always assumed I'd have loads of my own and I cannot imagine how it would be to be an only child. I am concerned that my ds might be lonely or that he will have an unhappy childhood as a consequence.
What I would really like to ask of mumsnet is whether any 'only children' are able to reassure me that it won't harm him to be an only child and also for any suggestions about how to make sure he is well socialised, beyond having an open-house for friends to visit. I am certain of this decision for myself and my dh but would reconsider if there was evidence of it being selfish towards my ds.
Thanks in advance for any views or comments.
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dobbin · 31/12/2005 14:57
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