I wonder whether any Mumsnetters out there have any advice, experiences to share. My ds will be 5 in January and ever since he was able has been unable to play on his own. It seems that he just cannot think of anything to do that doesn't involve either myself or my partner interacting with him. He is fine if he has a friend over to play but if it is just us in the house he mooches around hassling anyone who is around to play games with him or asking to watch the t.v. My partner is a SAHD and spends part of each day playing with him and takes him to the park most days. However, we also have a one year old who also requires attention (as 1 year olds do). He has attended nursery since he was 15 months old and is now at school until 12pm. We wondered whether the 1:1 attention he received whilst at nursery has prevented him from being able to entertain himself but this doesn't seem to have happened with other children. We realise that having another child in the house has meant he does not receive all the attention and we have tried explaining that we cannot be with him 24 hours a day. We have to specifically say to him go and do something else for an hour while we get dinner ready, feed dd, have a cup of tea etc. However, he will still keep sidling up to us after a few minutes trying to get us to do things with him. It is getting to the point where I feel he has no imagination whatsoever which worries and saddens me. I kind of expected that once he got to a certain age he would be able to play with toys etc by himself for at least some of the day. I am at my wit's end worrying about this and our abilities as parents. Does anyone have any suggestions or is there anyone with the same problem?
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