Over and over again I see others recommending the famous mumsnet pasta jar as an effective system of motivating children to behave well, and rewarding them for good behaviour.
I'd like to start this system at our house, but want to think about how to set up the groundrules before I introduce the concept to dd. I would love to know exactly how it's used in other homes.
What, if any, duties are expected of your child as a contributing member of the family and are not "rewardable"?
What "earns" a piece of pasta?
What "sin" causes a piece of pasta to be taken away?
How many pieces does the child have to earn in order to receive a reward?
What sorts of rewards do you give?
Do you start over again every week/month or when a milestone has been reached or a treat rewarded?
Any secrets for success, or pitfalls to be wary of?
DD is 4.8, btw. Thanks for the tips!
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The Mumsnet Pasta Jar - basic premise and how to introduce?
Earlybird · 17/10/2005 09:40
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