im hesitant to post this as i know every couple of months i post about how my dd is driving me crazy but she is getting even worse.
the other day she had 15 full blown tantrums, including one in the doorway of a restaurant and no-one would come to seat us (cant say i blame them). we had to go. then she started biting me every time i wasnt looking at her. when shes tantruming i have to pick her up like a baby and she kicks me in the head. she also runs up behind me and her brother and hits us with things. she is, quite frankly, horrible and i hate feeling like this. i dread every day. im not really physically scared of her but my nerves are permanently on edge for fear of upsetting her iyswim?
i dont even have to DO anything to upset her. sometimes she will scream at me and shake with temper because ive offered her a drink, or some food, things she usually likes. she's hardly eating at all these days. she screams with temper when visitors leave, but strangely not when i leave a room. she screams if i happen to brush past one of her toys, or if i give her the wrong toy...there's lots but i cant think of them all right now..basically most things upset her. i think that maybe sometimes im not giving her enough attention but its impossible, im a single mum and i CANT spend every waking minute playing with her.
she's 21 months now and has always been like this...is it ever going to stop!!!??? i love her dearly but looking after her, im ashamed to say, just feels like a chore most of the time.
is there something im missing? ive tried routines, eating meals at the same time (end result of that is she doesnt eat hers, screams to be let out of the highchair and comes along poking her fingers into my food, so i offer it her and she doesnt want it). she cant talk much but understands most things, i threaten her with bed or to sit on her own and cool off for a while but she's probably too young for that to work. where am i going so wrong with her? her brother has always been so well behaved, he was a baby full of sunshine and is now a young boy just the same.
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im ashamed to say, im frightened of my dd!
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NightHowl · 12/10/2005 00:41
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