Ds2 (4 in December) has been happy at nursery/pre-school since he started. Last term he was doing 2 x 2.5 hour sessions a week. On the days he didn't go he would ask "is it nursery today?" and be disappointed when it wasn't. He's now doing 5 mornings (5 x 2.5 sessions) a week and has been fine for the last two weeks. Over the weekend though he's said a few times he didn't want to go and this morning I had tears, wailing...the works. I consoled him with the promise of a gingerbread man when he gets back and that we will build a huge Brio track all over the living room.
Any ideas on why he suddenly doesn't seem keen to go? Do you think it's just that it's sunk in that he's going every day? He told me, initially, that he doesn't want to go because he misses me and he likes being at home but that then morphed into a general tantrum and screaming fit "I not want to go 'cos I not like it!" (he also says they make him do lots of work - which I think is something he has picked up from ds1 moaning about school ). I'm not aware of anything happening which would have made him reluctant to go.
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Anyone's child been happy at nursery then suddenly decided they don't want to go?
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marthamoo · 26/09/2005 10:09
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