Met an beloved old mate I haven't seen for ages in the road today and stopped for a chat. My children (twin boys, 6) got bored and egged each other on to say some really silly things to us, giggling foolishly all the while and not responding to my less than pleased instructions to calm down. In the end I had to stop the conversation prematurely and I felt really embarrassed that they'd behaved like that in front of my friend. So far so bad. But, on rounding the corner, I tried to tell them calmly but firmly and without going on about it how upset and cross I was at their behaviour and asked them to apologise. They couldn't or wouldn't stop laughing; every time one of them calmed down a bit the other would come out with some chioice silly phrase and they would both collapse. By the time we got home I was so upset that I've sent them both to bed. I might let them eat something later if they're very lucky.
Has anyone got any advice? I feel totally disrespected and demoralised when this happens. I can't seem to stop them egging each other on. To be fair, they're generally pretty well behaved and easy to talk and reason with and it doesn't happen that often- never at home because I just separate them- but when it does it seems to be in the most embarrassing of situations. I don't seem to be able to quell the initial problem and things escalate as I try and get them to calm down and become infuriated when they don't. Please help!
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ScummyMummy · 19/09/2005 16:51
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